The saga

I want to be up front and honest here, I?ve had time to digest what is going on and I still have a headache which started with the first email about this saga. I have not felt like I have been able to talk because I received money from Mum, which I have been struggling with.

I believe what J said is correct Mum would not want a family rift which as far as I can see has already happened. We are all hot blooded we are all adults and we are acting out in grief still I believe.

Decisions should not be made without consultation with everyone even if M you believe you?re doing the right thing, not everyone shares that one belief as you can see now. Your powers do not extend further than another sibling that too is supposed to be equal.

L please do not include me in your drunken rants. P is a member of this family no matter the distance. It is not an insult to me that she voices her opinion she is not out of touch with the family like your making her out to be. I have had money given to me when I needed to have my car fixed, Mum did give me a car. I used both amounts of money for the correct purposes, and I was most grateful for her assistance.

I believe the money should be equally shared as the amount now stands in her estate. We all have opinions and petty grievances of which none should be shared they are each our own demons to sort out personally.

I guess from this experience I will be updating my Will and spelling out exactly what is to happen because I would hate to be watching this unfold and not having the power to do anything.